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How To Conquer Your Fear And Skyrocket Your Success
Lessons from an Olympic Record-Breaker
Yesterday, I sat glued to my screen, heart pounding in sync with the crowd’s cheers. Armand Duplantis, the pole vaulting phenom, was soaring towards a new world record at the Olympic Games. As he cleared that gravity-defying 6.25m bar, a jolt of adrenaline shot through me — not just from his insane athleticism, but from the raw, unapologetic fearlessness he radiated.
Think about it: sprinting full tilt with a five-meter pole, then launching yourself skyward with the hope of clearing a bar taller than most houses. It’s the kind of feat that requires mind-boggling skill, yes, but even more so, an absolute absence of fear. If doubt creeps in, even for a split second, disaster is inevitable.
And that’s when it hit me: so much in life mirrors this pole vault paradox. We often have the skills, the talent, even the burning desire, yet we remain stuck, paralyzed by the fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown. I’ve been there countless times, my dreams taunting me from the other side of a fear-induced chasm.